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Mira Kirshenbaum
Jan 30, 20213 min read
What power moves have to do with you
Here’s something else that makes Why Couples Fight a revolutionary book.
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Mira Kirshenbaum
Jan 27, 20215 min read
6 Signs Power Problems Are Poisoning Your Relationship
What do power issues have to do with a relationship being in trouble? Everything!
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Mira Kirshenbaum
Jan 26, 20213 min read
Welcome to the relationship revolution
If you’re reading this on Tuesday, January 26, 2021, then THIS is the day. What day?
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Mira Kirshenbaum
Jan 23, 20213 min read
There’s unfairness, and there’s pandemic unfairness
Most of us try to manage a kind of almost-good-enough balance in our relationships. And then this freaking pandemic descends...
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Mira Kirshenbaum
Jan 20, 20214 min read
The eight core experiences of love
Why is it so easy for us to lose our shit in our relationships? We just want to love and be loved!
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Mira Kirshenbaum
Jan 18, 20214 min read
The one thing money can’t buy
Let me tell you about some of the billionaires I’ve worked with, plus another thing that’s utterly new about Why Couples Fight.
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Mira Kirshenbaum
Jan 15, 20213 min read
“What’s new about your new book?”
People often ask, especially since there are so many relationship books out there, what do you have to say that’s new?
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Mira Kirshenbaum
Jan 13, 20213 min read
How to disagree with your partner?
This post is an article we just did in request for a piece on “disagree with your partner.” As you see, we disagree with the very premise..
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Mira Kirshenbaum
Jan 11, 20214 min read
“Do we need to seek help for our relationship?”
You know, it’s not all that productive to worry about whether your relationship is “healthy” or about exactly how “healthy” it is. It...
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Mira Kirshenbaum
Jan 9, 20213 min read
Distance: The cold side of the dark side of relationships
“We get along okay. We just keep to our lanes. Though things are pretty bland. Boring, actually.”
This is the cold side of the dark side.
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Mira Kirshenbaum
Jan 7, 20213 min read
“What’s happening to our relationship?”
Why is it so hard for us to figure out what really the problem when things are going wrong in our relationships? This is worth exploring.
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Mira Kirshenbaum
Jan 4, 20215 min read
Making Memories
The average age for marriage in the US is about 29. Based on life expectancy, people married at the average age could expect to be...
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Mira Kirshenbaum
Jan 1, 20213 min read
Everything will change. Nothing will be different.
Anyway, I don’t know about you, but I woke up this morning in this brand-new year and found I looked just the way I did last year.
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Mira Kirshenbaum
Dec 31, 20204 min read
The most important quality for a happy relationship??
What is the key to a happy relationship? The joke goes: “Love. Love and money. Love, money, and a very big boat."
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Mira Kirshenbaum
Dec 29, 20203 min read
You are bigger than your life
The one thing we know, even if we’ve not put it into these words, is that we’re bigger than our lives. We could have and can do more.
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Mira Kirshenbaum
Dec 26, 20202 min read
The way home
Back in Boston, our bedroom was up in the trees, and right outside were the squirrels with their bedrooms.
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Mira Kirshenbaum
Dec 24, 20201 min read
Our holiday greetings to you
This is a season of love, joy, peace, and hope. May it be so for you.
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Mira Kirshenbaum
Dec 22, 20203 min read
Living in a worry culture
In the previous two posts I talked about why we shouldn’t worry and about how to stop worrying, but there was something missing...
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Mira Kirshenbaum
Dec 19, 20205 min read
Worry is the cracker crumbs in the bed of life
What is worrying, exactly? It’s restless, pointless sifting over and over through our fears and concerns without getting much out of the...
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Mira Kirshenbaum
Dec 17, 20204 min read
What, me worry? But...me DO worry!!
Almost everyone says it’s hard for them to stop worrying. Have you ever had someone say to you, “Oh, stop worrying!”
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